
Pedro Almodóvar’s first English language film follows two friends, Martha (played by Tilda Swinton) and Ingrid (Julianne Moore), who reconnect under difficult circumstances. Martha, a former war correspondent, is battling stage three cervical cancer that’s proven inoperable. While she initially tries an experimental treatment that shows some promise, she eventually learns it isn’t working when the cancer spreads to her liver and bones.
The story really kicks off when Ingrid, a successful author, learns about Martha’s condition from their mutual friend Stella while signing books at an event. Upon visiting Martha in the hospital, the two quickly rekindle their friendship despite years of being out of touch. Through their conversations, we learn about Martha’s complicated past, particularly her relationship with her daughter Michelle. Martha had Michelle as a teenager and struggled to be present as a mother while building her career as a journalist. Michelle’s father was a Vietnam War veteran who returned home deeply traumatized by his experiences. Though Martha had a brief relationship with him, he wasn’t ready for family life and moved away to San Diego, never becoming part of Michelle’s life. This absence created a rift between mother and daughter that grew wider over the years.
As Martha’s condition worsens and the treatment proves ineffective, she makes a profound decision – she wants to end her life on her own terms rather than suffer through a prolonged, painful decline. She acquires euthanasia medication through the dark web and asks Ingrid to be with her when she takes it, not in the same room but nearby. This request comes after several other close friends have refused to help. Though Ingrid has her own deep fears about death (having written a book about it), she agrees to support her friend’s choice.
They rent a house near Woodstock for a month, where Martha plans to spend her final days. The story takes an intense turn when they initially can’t find the pill after arriving, leading to a frantic search back at Martha’s apartment. Once they locate it, they return to the rental house. In these final days, Martha struggles with simple pleasures she can no longer enjoy – she can’t focus enough to read or properly enjoy music, though she finds peace in listening to birdsong at dawn.
One morning, Ingrid has a terrible scare when she finds Martha’s door closed (their agreed signal that she had taken the pill), only to discover it was just the wind. The night before Martha ultimately takes her life, they watch John Huston’s film “The Dead” together, sharing a poignant moment over its themes of mortality. The next day, while Ingrid is out meeting with their friend Damien, Martha chooses her moment. Ingrid returns to find Martha has passed away peacefully on a sun lounger by the pool, dressed beautifully in yellow with red lipstick.
The aftermath brings its own challenges. Ingrid faces intense questioning from a religiously zealous police officer who suspects she assisted in Martha’s death. She maintains she was simply on vacation with her friend and had no knowledge of Martha’s plans. A lawyer arranged by Damien helps resolve the situation. Perhaps most significantly, Martha’s death creates an opportunity for healing between mother and daughter. Michelle visits the house where her mother spent her final days, and through conversations with Ingrid, finally learns the full truth about her father and comes to better understand her mother’s struggles.
The film closes with Michelle staying at the house, looking remarkably like her mother, while Ingrid writes letters to Martha about how she sees glimpses of her friend everywhere. A snowfall in the final scene serves as a beautiful metaphor for how memories of Martha continue to touch those she left behind. Despite the heavy subject matter, the film maintains Almodóvar’s characteristic visual style, using bright colors that contrast with its themes of mortality, creating a unique perspective on how we face death and the connections that sustain us through life’s most challenging moments.
The story ultimately becomes not just about choosing how to die, but about how we choose to live, how we maintain friendships through difficult times, and how understanding can come even after someone is gone. Through Martha’s story, the film explores how facing death can bring clarity to life and heal relationships we thought were beyond repair.
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